my gf broke up with me a while ago i still love her but she says she broke up with me cuz she just got used to dating me as a routine, she also said some other stuff, what should i do to get her back??? please help
Ok. At the tender age of fourteen, you can't expect your relationships to last very long, I'm sorry to say.
Also, at your age...and the teenage years in general...the best thing to do when you're dumped is this process:
1. Stop. Find a place where you can be alone without any distractions - it might be just when you're laying in bed before you go to sleep.
2. Think. Think about what happened in the relationship and what went wrong. Try and identify what you did or didn't do that caused problems to happen.
3. Learn. If you identify one of the problems that occured to be caused by something you did, then try to fix this so that it won't happen again. Remember that it might not always be your fault - sometimes girls just lose interest or go crazy.
4. Act. There are two options you can take here. You can either choose to move on and find someone else to like...or if you think that it will happen then continue to pursue the girl. The latter of those can be dangerous and you need to know when to stop. If she is flirting with other guys then stop immediately and move on so that you don't get hurt. For moving on, the best way to do it is to like someone else...and there will be plenty of other girls at your school I can imagine.
