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delossantosj
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okey so one of my best friends is going out with another one of my best friends and they like to you know... do it.

and so my friend comes over to my house around 7 today and is like.... "dude.... (enter name here) might be pregnant... i dont know what to do"

im just sitting here like, what the hell do i say to him? "should have had less sex"? i mean i know where hes coming from ive felt the same way before but i saw her today and she did seem kinda bloated.... so i dont know what to say to him. and ehr quite frankly.

any advice for him and me?

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miguelin11
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"You should've worn a condom"
"dude you're in BIG trouble"
"Tell her mother you're gay and wouldn't have done it with her"
"Live a happy life together with the kid"
"tell her about abortion"

delossantosj
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see now thats the problem.... lol i dont want to be like some sort of harsh jerk with him but it seems like everything i say would be lol.

samy
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Well first all of you need to remain calm and try to keep this quite and try to make sure she actually is pregnant.

Now if she is they should look into either adoption or keeping the baby but either way you NEED to tell their parents so they can help with this.

SirLegendary
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Just keep moving forward, if this ends up bad then it does. All your friend can do is just to look forward to the future, You made new life. It does sound bad but he's in control.

Gametesta
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You really should be upfront about. You should treat him getting a girl pregnant like you would treat finding out he did drugs.

Xcalibur45
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"Cover ur stump before u hump"
"Dont be silly Cover ur willy"

No but this is serious, Believe it or not I've had friends like that, the best thing to do is be supportive. Don't make anything change about your friendly relationship. Let that person know your there for them and that you'll always be.

knight_34
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This is up to you and your judgement. Seeing as we aren't in your shoes, we can't make the final decision.

Whether you must shun him or be supportive depends.

Graham
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It's his fault, you can't really help the situation.

knight_34
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Yes.

All you can do is either support him, or shun him. Getting yourself in this though isn't a light thing.

Holden012
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He should have worn a condom. Seriously... is that too much trouble?

HoodHulk58
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Honestly when my friend told me he got his girl pregnant I said "What the hell you want me to do about it?" but Its called "BLOOD TEST"
If that don't work (meaning you ARE the father) then tell him well look dude you fuked up.

I'm mean really Buy condoms if you broke steal them from 7-11 like the rest of us if you suck at stealing then really people how hard is it to just PULL OUT!?its easy.

samy
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The point here isn't what his friend should have done but that he did it and it happened and now he has to deal with it.

If she is pregnant try your best to be supportive as friends mean everything to someone who's world is crashing down around them.

XVERB
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kick the girl in the belly.

PROBLEM SOLVED

samy
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kick the girl in the belly.

PROBLEM SOLVED


>.>
I really hope your kidding.

If not let's try to avoid abortion talk until he knows if she's pregnant and if she doesn't want to put the child up for adoption.
XVERB
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^^ i was kidding. but if he was really desperate it would actually work.

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