So yesterday i got really wasted and told this chick from my class that i loved her (i probably said something else i don't remember) even though i don't. My question is WTF do i do? Should i apologize, or just let it be? I don't know if it matters but this girl is kinda suicidal sometimes and has a severe lack of self-confidence.
There's nothing like waking up with whiskers drawn on your face and little memory of the day before.
Unless your friends are 6 years old, you're aren't going to wake up with whiskers on your face. You'll find other things on your face that will make you beg for whiskers.
No, just give the users the information and then let them make there own decison, you can force to make anyone think a certain way.
People would read the forum rules more often than some after school special tab about safe sex/alcohol.
They still wouldn't read the forum rules very much.
I would laugh if that was on an ad on Cartoon Network.
Cartoon Network makes bullies look cool to younger children. Cartoon Network might lose some of their audience if they started spreading that sort of message.
This is a game site, that has nothing to with them.
This true but it is also a site thats need to relate to teenagers to survive, even look at what we are talking about now getting drunk and apologiseing doesn't seem like game talk.
Unless your friends are 6 years old, you're aren't going to wake up with whiskers on your face. You'll find other things on your face that will make you beg for whiskers.
I mean some kids (not all) drink like 4-7 shots/beers and still not drunk. Even kids who drink and drive and they pass the orientation and the test where you follow the light and walk straight, but the breathing really is the hard thing to get pass.
well, since we are in the tavern I don't think its inappropriate to talk about alcohol related incidences, or to give advice. I mean, we are just having conversation.
but you were under the influence and not in your own state of mind and you shouldn't feel that its "your fault" if this girl takes things the wrong way. If she's already an unstable person anything could knock her lid. Just be more careful when your drinking and if you start feeling "in love" or any other strange thoughts you wish to be let known, fight it.
REMEMBER YOUR DRUNK
you know it when you are, and even if you slip again make sure your sober when its time to clean up the mess of loose lips.
Was it face to face, because in that case she would know you were drunk, and in that state you love pretty much everyone. Unless she makes a deal out of it, ignore it. Trying to sort it out will most likely lead to crap happening, especially if she has a low self esteem. If she confronts you or she spreads the word, however, you are screwed. Then the best you can do is to shout out that you love everybody, and then fake going out cold or something.
Nah, it wasn't face to face, i think i texted her or something. Yeah, i'll just ignore it and act normal. If she acts strange then i'll talk to her, or if she spreads the word. Thanks for the advice.
Well you need to learn that going out for drinks should be having a good time with your mates rather then you making a fool out of yourself, I hate it when people blame things on achoel abuse, you should say it's true you generally tell the most truth when your drunk.
Look man, i know that. I don't go out just to get wasted, that's stupid.
well, since we are in the tavern I don't think its inappropriate to talk about alcohol related incidences, or to give advice. I mean, we are just having conversation.
but you were under the influence and not in your own state of mind and you shouldn't feel that its "your fault" if this girl takes things the wrong way. If she's already an unstable person anything could knock her lid. Just be more careful when your drinking and if you start feeling "in love" or any other strange thoughts you wish to be let known, fight it.
REMEMBER YOUR DRUNK
you know it when you are, and even if you slip again make sure your sober when its time to clean up the mess of loose lips.
Thanks dude, next time i get wasted like this i'll just shut my mouth and do my best not to talk to anyone, although that is pretty hard when you're not sober.
Mate this is tragic. This is why whenever I know I am going to be very drunk I remove my sim card. Damage limitation brother, damage limitation!
I think your best move is to talk to the girl and just say sorry if that seemed a little pervy, I was just a bit smashed. At least then she thinks you're a bit of a joker and can see the humour in the situation rather than not saying anything at all, and letting her form her own conclusions.
Mate this is tragic. This is why whenever I know I am going to be very drunk I remove my sim card. Damage limitation brother, damage limitation!
I think your best move is to talk to the girl and just say sorry if that seemed a little pervy, I was just a bit smashed. At least then she thinks you're a bit of a joker and can see the humour in the situation rather than not saying anything at all, and letting her form her own conclusions.
She was acting normal today at school, maybe she didn't care about it? Or maybe she just finds it too awkward and prefers not to talk about it. Whatever, i guess i'll just let it be and talk to her only if i must. I mean, she probably understands right? I was drunk it's not like i was aware of what i was doing.