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budokai1694
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i dont know if this is the right place to put this but i was just asked over text to cheat on my gf. haha i dont know what to do, i have secretly liked this girl forever until recently but help anyone?"

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LiL_GaNgSta_BlAzE
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Jester

You are asking, if you should cheat on your girlfriend, over the Internet?

Answer - NO!

Dude, are you in high school or something? Because, then there is a big chance, your not in love. This is all a fad, high school relationships are all a joke.

You don't jump ship with someone you love, the moment another person you 'like' comes a long. You stick by it, unless leaving is the only option. And yet, that's not what your doing.

Your leaving late at night, and returning in the morning, is what your doing. It won't make you look any better, pal.

Stay away from this kind of stuff. You like the new girl, you'll like the next one that comes along.

budokai1694
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thanks but i just find it more entertaining to have multiple girls, no im not in high school.

LiL_GaNgSta_BlAzE
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Entertaining? What, you like being nagged?

- Ah I mean, you like cheating on girls? Then why ask this place? (Of all places)?

MageGrayWolf
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thanks but i just find it more entertaining to have multiple girls, no im not in high school.


If you want to date more then one person at a time then I suggest you make sure the people you are with are okay with it first. Don't just go running around behind peoples backs.
IISn1p3dII
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Ultimately it's your decision but I highly recommend sticking with her if you want the relationship to go anywhere. If you're committed, stay committed. A real man uses self-control, and this is where you need to use it.

But like I said, regardless, it's up to you.

Armpit
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It will not get you anywhere to cheat. In the end, you'd just end up with one less girl than when you started.

If you want to date more then one person at a time then I suggest you make sure the people you are with are okay with it first.


That is a tough question to ask, though. No matter what their answer is, it's an insult to them, because when you ask that question, it's implied that the one girl is not enough for you. Again, you'll probably end up with one less girl than when you started.
IISn1p3dII
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That is a tough question to ask, though. No matter what their answer is, it's an insult to them, because when you ask that question, it's implied that the one girl is not enough for you. Again, you'll probably end up with one less girl than when you started.


Not true, to be honest with you. Some people have "Open Relationships" where it's acceptable to engage in sexual activity with another woman and the Wife/Girlfriend would be okay with it. And Vice-Versa.
DDX
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wait. how is this current events? just curious.

pk2015
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i was just thinking the same thing lol

Strop
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Well, this actually belongs in the Tavern, so I'll move it there.

but i was just asked over text to cheat on my gf


Regardless of what you choose, I would delete that text message asap. And remember the consequences of what you do increase exponentially with age. People find things out. They talk. Including the one whom you cheat with. How much do you trust her, if she's asking you to cheat?

In crude terms, I'd hate to get some now only to find that nobody worth finding will give me any later. That would suck.
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Peasant

It's current event to him a guess.

My advice is to dump your current girlfriend and ignore the other. High school relationships never lead anywhere and if the other girl told you to cheat on your girlfriend think about how trustworthy she must be.

no im not in high school.

*Checks profile and re-reads your comments* I think you are.
DDX
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It's current event to him a guess.

my bad I mean world events. durr.
Armpit
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Some people have "Open Relationships" where it's acceptable to engage in sexual activity with another woman and the Wife/Girlfriend would be okay with it.


Another tough question to ask, and this is even harder to ask, because if she says no, she probably not only thinks you're a jerk, but she probably also has reason to believe that you are some sort of pig who only wants one thing; and after that, you probably won't be seeing much of that girl.
Google567
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Nope cause in the end you'll most likely end up with no one and a Father thanks to your one night stand. Also appear on Maury and hear "You are the father!"

Joshman1444
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Nomad

I agree.
You shoud find at least a small iota of self and other respect on you souuullll!
So dont! Cuz shell Know.

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